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How it works

Designed around you, not an algorithm.

Four steps from joining to your first curated introduction.

For women

  1. 01

    Create your profile

    Sign up in minutes. Tell us about yourself, what you want, and what you won't compromise on. Upload a few photos. No swiping, no browsing, no inbox full of strangers.
  2. 02

    Set your preferences

    Age range, city, education, dealbreakers. Your matchmaker uses these to filter candidates before you see anything. You won't be shown profiles that don't fit.
  3. 03

    Receive a curated introduction

    Your matchmaker sends you a verified profile with a personal note explaining why she picked him. You see his full profile first. He sees nothing about you yet.

    You are invisible until you say yes.

  4. 04

    Accept or pass

    No pressure, no counter-pressure. Accept and he can see your profile. Pass and he never knows you were shown his. If both accept, messaging opens.
A man and a woman laughing together over two glasses of mint lemonade on a café terrace, seen through potted palms at dusk, string lights above them
When you both say yesMessaging opens
A man in a white shirt buttoning his cuff by a bedroom window, his watch waiting on the dresser
Every man is checkedID, job, and a review by our women curators

Apply. Get verified. Get introduced. Every man on Aarohi has been through the same process. No shortcuts.

For men

  1. 01

    Submit your application

    Basic info, photos, written answers about what you're looking for. Takes about 15 minutes.
  2. 02

    Identity and employment check

    Government ID plus LinkedIn or company email verification. Our team reviews within 24–48 hours.
  3. 03

    Curator review

    A member of our female curation team reads your answers and reviews your profile. She approves or declines.
  4. 04

    Get introduced

    Once approved, your matchmaker introduces you to women who fit what you are looking for. You see the matchmaker's note first; names and photos appear only when you both say yes.

The verification process

What we actually check

  • Government-issued ID

    Passport or national ID. Verified against the application name.

  • Employment

    LinkedIn profile or company email. We check it's current, not historical.

  • Written screening

    A set of questions about intent, past relationships, and behaviour. Our curators read every answer.

  • Curator sign-off

    A member of our female team reviews the full application and makes the final call.

If something goes wrong

Any member can report another member directly from the app. Our safety team responds within 2 hours. Confirmed issues get the account suspended immediately, no questions asked.

We don't arbitrate. If a woman feels unsafe, that's enough.

Still have questions?

Read the FAQ or write to us. We reply within 4 hours on business days.

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